“Do I love you? Do I lust for you? Am I a sinner cuz I do the two? Could you let me know, right now please.”
The first words of A Tribe Called Quest song Bonita Applebum and it is what everyone wants to know.
Most young adults think about that with the person they are dating. Always wondering if they are the perfect person and do they love them.
Amazing sex, great passion in bed, this got to be love. Not always. Sadly the best sex is with someone you may not be in love with, marry or have children with. It is just great sex. And that’s ok.
Now if you just happen to be lucky and get the best of both worlds, great. Keep that fire strong and long. Any arguments, work it out with passion that you for each other. It keeps a long happy relationship.
On the other hand, if you don’t have that fire, you have love of a friendship. Of course friendships always die so it can be some work but love is powerful and love can make sex great for a couple.
Lust and hot sex is an instant reaction but love is long lasting. What do you think and which would you rather have?